Upgrade Parquet to fix off-heap memory leaks in Zstd codec

Recently, native memory leak have been discovered in Parquet in conjunction of it using Zstd decompressor from luben/zstd-jni library (PARQUET-2160).

This is very problematic to a point where we can't use Parquet w/ Zstd due to pervasive OOMs taking down our executors and disrupting our jobs.

Luckily fix addressing this had already landed in Parquet:
https://github.com/apache/parquet-mr/pull/982

Now, we just need to

1. Updated version of Parquet is released in a timely manner
2. Spark is upgraded onto this new version in the upcoming release