Add support to provide spark.executor.extraJavaOptions in terms of App Id and/or Executor Id's

Users may want to enable gc logging or heap dump for the executors, but there is a chance of overwriting it by other executors since the paths cannot be expressed dynamically. This improvement would enable to express the spark.executor.extraJavaOptions paths in terms of App Id and Executor Id's to avoid the overwriting by other executors.

There was a discussion about this in SPARK-3767, but it never fixed.