Upgrade Spotless to 0.43.0 & Scala 2.12.19

Currently building off of master is broken because of:

```

[ERROR] Failed to execute goal com.diffplug.spotless:spotless-maven-plugin:2.30.0:check (default) on project parquet-format-structures: Execution default of goal com.diffplug.spotless:spotless-maven-plugin:2.30.0:check failed: java.lang.reflect.InvocationTargetException: 'com.sun.tools.javac.tree.JCTree com.sun.tools.javac.tree.JCTree$JCImport.getQualifiedIdentifier()' -> [Help 1]

```

Arrow hit the same issue: https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion-comet/pull/85 because of this: https://github.com/diffplug/spotless/issues/1774. Bumping spotless to fix building on master.