[hbase-thirdparty] Bump maven plugin versions

apache parent pom 23 -> 30 maven-release-plugin ? -> 3.0.1 maven-clean-plugin ? -> 3.3.1 build-helper-maven-plugin 3.2.0 -> 3.4.0 buildnumber-maven-plugin 1.4 -> 3.1.0 maven-shade-plugin 3.2.4 -> 3.5.0 maven-compiler-plugin 3.8.1 -> 3.11.0 maven-dependency-plugin 3.2.0 -> 3.6.0 maven-source-plugin 3.2.0 -> 3.3.0 maven-antrun-plugin 3.0.0 -> 3.1.0 maven-enforcer-plugin 3.0.0 -> 3.4.1 extra-enforcer-rules 1.4 -> 1.7.0 flatten-maven-plugin 1.3.0 -> 1.5.0 nexus-staging-maven-plugin 1.6.8 -> 1.6.13