Race between secondary index building and active compactions tracking

There is a race condition between the secondary index build compaction task and the active compactions tracking, especially when incremental repair is running.
It could result into 2 exceptions.

Caused by: java.util.NoSuchElementException
	at org.apache.cassandra.utils.AbstractIterator.next(AbstractIterator.java:64)
	at org.apache.cassandra.io.sstable.ReducingKeyIterator.next(ReducingKeyIterator.java:117)
	at org.apache.cassandra.index.internal.CollatedViewIndexBuilder.build(CollatedViewIndexBuilder.java:74)
	at org.apache.cassandra.db.compaction.CompactionManager$14.run(CompactionManager.java:1688)

Caused by: java.io.EOFException
	at org.apache.cassandra.io.util.RebufferingInputStream.readByte(RebufferingInputStream.java:180)
	at org.apache.cassandra.utils.vint.VIntCoding.readUnsignedVInt(VIntCoding.java:68)
	at org.apache.cassandra.io.util.RebufferingInputStream.readUnsignedVInt(RebufferingInputStream.java:243)
	at org.apache.cassandra.db.RowIndexEntry$Serializer.readPosition(RowIndexEntry.java:364)
	at org.apache.cassandra.db.RowIndexEntry$Serializer.skip(RowIndexEntry.java:369)
	at org.apache.cassandra.io.sstable.KeyIterator.computeNext(KeyIterator.java:110)

In the first exception, the iterator returns true for the call of `hasNext`, but the following call of `next` throws.
In the second exception, the file wrapper object returns false for the call of `isEOF`, but the following call that reads from it throws EOFException.
The exceptions can be constantly reproduced by the test in the patch.

The root cause of the exception is from the thread-unsafe lazy initialization found in `ReducingKeyIterator` and `KeyIterator`. When the `maybeInit` methods of both classes are called from multiple threads, it is likely to instantiate 2 instances and mess up the internal state. Those iterators might not be considered being used in a multiple thread environment when being added to the codebase initially. However, the `CollatedViewIndexBuilder` contains the reference to those 2 iterator, and it, as a `CompactionInfo.Holder`, is added to active compactions to be accessed from other threads, e.g. by calling `ActiveCompactions#getCompactionsForSSTable`. The implementation of `getCompactionInfo` in `CollatedViewIndexBuilder` publishes the reference to the `ReducingKeyIterator` and transitively `KeyIterator` to the other threads. Therefore, the other threads can possibly race.

For the instance of NSEE, thread 1 calls the `hasNext` on the `ReducingKeyIterator`, it initialize the internal merge iterator. The call returns true. Right after, there is a thread 2 that calls `ActiveCompactions#getCompactionsForSSTable` and it sees the instance of `ReducingKeyIterator` is not initialized yet, so run `maybeInit` again. The reference of `iter` is replaced with the second instance. Now, thread 1 calls `next` using the new instance that does not has the correct state (expecting HAS_NEXT). So it again calls `hasNext`, which fetches the next element from the merged iterator. Those 2 `ReducingKeyIterator` share the same instances of `KeyIterator`. If the key iterators are already at the end, calling `hasNext` returns false and we get the NSEE.

Besides the explicit NSEE exception, with the above reasoning, it is also possible to have the unexpected behavior that skips one item from the merge iterator. It leads to no 2i is built for that missing partition. Such case is totally hidden since no exception is ever thrown.

To fix the unexpected behaviors, we need to correctly lazy initialize the iterators.

Looking at the implementations of `CompactionInfo.Holder`, `ScrubInfo` and `VerifyInfo` also publishes the non-thread-safe `RandomAccessReader` when creating the compaction info object. According to the code inspection, there is a rare chance that a thread is calling `getFilePointer` from the file object and another thread closes the file, which can produce a NPE. When closing the file, the internal states, e.g. buffer is set to null. I did not add the fix in this patch, as it is never spotted.