TableCalalog reserved properties shoudn't be changed with options or tblpropeties

Instead of using `OPTIONS (k='v')` or TBLPROPERTIES (k='v'), if k is a reserved TableCatalog property, we should use its specific syntax to add/modify/delete it.
e.g. provider is a reserved property, we should use the USING clause to specify it, and should not allow ALTER TABLE ... UNSET TBLPROPERTIES('provider') to delete it.