Deduplicate type checking across Arrow optimization and vectorized APIs in SparkR

There are duplication about type checking in Arrow <> SparkR code paths. For instance,

https://github.com/apache/spark/blob/8126d09fb5b969c1e293f1f8c41bec35357f74b5/R/pkg/R/group.R#L229-L253

struct type and map type should also be restricted.

We should pull it out as a separate function and add deduplicated tests separately.