[Release] Updating .deb package names in the prepare script failed to run on OSX

This code segment: https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/master/dev/release/00-prepare.sh#L143-L167

It was complaining about missing files, so something with the pattern is wrong on OSX:

https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/master/dev/release/00-prepare.sh#L148

Additionally the problem can be twofold, depending on the outcome of the RC0. If it passes the VOTE, than We need to run the previous update script, similarly like kou did after 0.11.0 release:

https://github.com/apache/arrow/commit/222632c67464a2bdd4724161c5ae79abf72a8bf7#diff-2294062bc9761f012d9abea73fa86153